Did you know there is a formula to looking and feeling your best inside and
out? think of the times that you have positioned yourself on a park bench
in the middle of your favorite mall and people watched. Some passersby
simply get lost in the crowd without notice at all, and other stand out
dramatically with poise, presence, color, confidence and an altogether positive
look. Exactly what is it they know that you don't?
That is what this article is all about.
Step by step on a continuous basis, we will uncover the recipe to looking
great! Exuding a positive sense of presence comes from knowing what
colors to wear, what type of clothes best fit your lifestyle and personality,
the particulars of tailoring clothes to flatter your body style. Make-up
and application, hints on the appropriate color of make-up, the length of a tie,
what is the best formula for socks and hose, hair color, style and ease to best
fit your face; attitude, confidence, and feeling good about you.
Sounds simple enough, doesn't it? After all, it isn't really true that
people are born with that natural beauty. Sure, some people have it easier
than others, but in all actuality, the knowledge to looking your best comes form
understanding the how-tos in life.
Let's start with the bottom line.
You're not going to feel good about how you look if you believe in your heart
that you won't. Having an open mind and daring to take the first step is
the beginning of the journey into improved appearance. If you struggle in
the area of feeling good about how you look and feel, or if you want to define
and sharpen your appearance, understanding the formula will change who you see
in the mirror dramatically.
In the beginning, there is color. Color is exciting. It brings
out your personality, your attitude and can cause you to either look like a
powerful, energetic go-getter, or, it can create a look that is tired, drab and
mousy. Educating yourself in the correct color is the foundation for all
the rest of your outer image.
Before you go racing out to the store to
purchase all sorts of colorful shirts and blouses, analyze yourself in the
mirror and ask yourself these simple questions: Are you light and soft, or
dark and bold? Light and soft people are those with light hair such as
blonde, or strawberry blonde. People who are dark and bold have brown,
black, or deep red hair. It is imperative you analyze this according to
your natural hair color, not the color you may have changed it to. Men and
women with white or silver hair must ascertain what hair color they had previous
to their hair turning white to discover if they are light and soft or dark and
bold.
Next, look at your eye color.
Again, light and soft would be blue or green eyes, dark and gold eyes would be
hazel and brown. Light and soft people keep their balance and overall best
appearance by continuing with their natural looks of light and soft near their
face. This doesn't mean you can't deviate from the 'rule of thumb' on
occasion, but that is not what we are trying to accomplish here. We are
attempting to accomplish your best appearance.
So soft pastel shirts, blouses and scarves tend to keep your consistency and
keep your theme of natural softness. thus, dark bold colors would take
away from your softness and overpower your face.
Dark and bold people keep their balance and overall
best appearance by continuing with their dark and bolder
features. Thus the deep jewel tones, and more dominant colors will keep
your looks consistent near your face and accent your deep eyes, hair and
complexion thus creating balance, and consistency.
Next month we will talk about what particular colors are best to wear.
That too has much to do with your natural hair color as well as
complexion. Not everyone can wear deep purple if they are dark and bold,
and certainly not everyone can wear pink if they are light and soft. Take
one step at a time, and your looks will improve, purchasing clothes to wear will
become easier, your wardrobe will make more sense, and you will feel better
about your appearance.