Strolling through the mall last Wednesday night, I couldn’t
deny my age. Witnessing clothes coming back into the market labeled as ‘cool’
and ‘hottest outfits of the year!” and knowing I wore that style clothes when I
was in elementary school was a crude reminder that approximately 30 years have
passed.
Trends appear to be about 30 year
spans. Trends happen because the clothes industry decided what was
worn last year simply won’t sell again this year, so they stretch creative
imagination as far as they can reach, and come up with the next selling hit of
the season. Something new, something different, something fresher…..not!!
It is apparent that trend and fashion has decided this fall
season that browns are to be the surrogate basic black, and oranges are
replacement pinks. The question is, can people really WEAR those browns and
oranges and feel good about themselves? Answer? Probably not. Unless, of
course, you are a natural redhead or strawberry blonde. So, this is when you
have to make the decision if you are going to be trendy, and therefore fall into
the fashion industries trap, and purchase the browns, and wear them the best you
can in the name of being ‘hip’.
Sadly enough, the trend is
bringing back the entire ‘peasant girl’ look of the 60’s as well.
Some of those looks are not very attractive, nor complimentary. The other
day, I was at a popular dinner/dance restaurant in a nearby city, and watched as
women in their later 30’s and earlier 40’s were trying to pull off wearing
overly small clothes that didn’t fit, as well as the trendy cut of clothes
certainly not designed for their body shape what-so-ever. Then, add on top of
that, the clothes were not accenting their skin tones because they chose the
trendy oranges/tans and double whammy happened as far as make up and clothes
clashing with their overall look. What a sad sight that can be.
Trendy or not, if you wear
something that makes you feel unattractive, chances are, it IS unattractive.
If you happen to glance at yourself in a mirror strategically placed in the
women’s restroom later that day, you will once again be reminded how negative
those colors or that particular outfit may be on you. Negative appearance
usually causes you to feel negative. Ever have anyone ask you if you didn’t
feel so well? Check your color outfit and see it if could be you are wearing
something that is not complimenting you or your skin tones.
Department stores are loaded with clothes, all beautifully
displayed to create a purchase. All screaming “This is the trend for now!”
“Buy me! Buy me!”
Good news is you can still be
trendy and not look unpleasant. Be wise in your choices. Make sure
your complimentary colors exist in the clothes you wear closest to your face.
Choose the more trendy color to be pants, skirt, or something below your waist.
Make sure that the blouse or shirt you choose is one that accentuates your body
style, and not over emphasizing your larger features, or under emphasizing your
positive features. Consider if the neckline is attractive or not? Pick a few
varieties and see what truly looks best.
Power shop by grabbing a number of items in your size and
once you have chosen a large variety of clothes that are to be tried on, spend
one extremely constructive length of time in the changing room, and narrow down
your choices. Analyze if it is complimentary or not, and analyze what makes it
attractive? Is it the color? Is it the cut design of the neckline? Is it the
sleeves? The way it is tailored?
Nothing can be more confusing than picking out your next
season outfits. Beware of the trends, shop with educated knowledge.
And enjoy the journey.