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Men's image makes a difference too
Featured in the August 2005
Modern Salon Magazine in the article "It's
Raining Men" - all about our services for men.
We know men want to
look great too! Half our customers are men, so we know you
guys care about image, too. Most people think of image for women, and somehow ignore
image for men.
Whether you want
to 'renew' your image for an upcoming job interview or social occasion, or are recently single again and
need a fresh look, here are a few pointers to get you going in the right
direction. And if you live in the Raleigh/Durham area, don't forget
to stop in to see in person what we can do for you.
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Hair on your head & face
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Color:
Many men consider enhancing their hair color. We say
forget it unless you are in extreme circumstances. Most men turn gray,
or gracefully lose their hair, and contrary to what society thinks about
women, men wear it well. It is best to leave perfection alone. We do have a few comments about
other issues of your appearance, however.Cut:
Overall balance is imperative for your hairstyle. If you are bald on the top
of your head, keep the rest of your hair length short. Long hair with baldness
on the top is terribly distracting, and doesn't do appearance any favors. Keep
your mustache and beard trimmed. Never leave them unattended. Keep facial hair
neat and short. Long beards, or mustaches that grow over the top lip
gives people opportunity to wonder how often food catches in them. It is very
distracting. At the next board meeting, you might find that people
concentrate more on your facial hair than
what you have to say. A slight five o'clock shadow
trim is very attractive if your hair is dark and beard is full. If you own a
bushy mustache, trim the length and also the profile depth. |
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Wearing the right clothes ...
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Business:
If you dress with Docker's (pleated dress pants) and a nice ironed shirt,
make sure your socks match the color of your pants. Always have a black belt to
go with black shoes, and brown belt to go with brown shoes. These are basic
essentials. Ties, if required, should be tied so that the tip meets at your belt
buckle ... not above, and not below. People's eyes focus most often at the end of the point
of your tie. You don't want them to stare at your stomach or the zipper to your
pants! Purchase new ties once every few years; tie width and styles change
often and quickly become out of date.
Casual:
Here
is a fantastic sure-shot look: blue jeans or shorts and a tee shirt or nicely ironed button-down dress
shirt, all finished
off with a matching belt and shoes. Usually if you are wearing tennis shoes, I'd suggest a brown belt rather than black, unless
your jeans or shirt are black. Colored jeans, such as tan, black or brown all offer a
slightly more dressed-up casual look that is refreshing and allows you to stand
out in a crowd. Don't forget the rule of thumb about having your socks
match
hemlines. See the business category regarding sock colors.
Suits:
All suits need to be tailored to fit your particular body style and shape.
No two men have the same body. Even the most expensive suit need a nip and
tuck here and there. Don't wear your suit pants too low on your shoes.
Let them
gracefully fall onto the tops of your shoes, but not dragging in the back.
Certainly don't wear pants that are too short and show your socks as you are
standing. Always keep your shirt collar tucked into your suit jacket, and pay
attention to the length of the suit jacket sleeves. Nothing is worse than seeing
4" of shirt cuffs at the end of your arms because your jacket sleeves are
too short. Have them altered. Become good friends with your local tailor.
Stay
away from ties that are too wild. Even if you have a zingy personality and
like dramatic dress, you want people to focus first on your face, not on your
bold tie.
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Personal appearance
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Men, there is a lot to be said about the the small
details. If
you have hairs growing on your earlobes or inside your ears, trim them off
regularly. Don't let your eyebrows grow together; shape them neatly and separate
your eyebrows. Some men need to take a comb and trim the profile depth of their
eyebrows too, as they may have a few hairs that grow wild and long. Make sure
'stragglers' are trimmed to conform to the rest of your eyebrows. Trim your
fingernails and toenails. Get the dirt and grime out from underneath your
fingernails. If you have rough hands from your profession or hobbies, you may
wish to use a pumice stone to occasionally sand down some of your
calluses.
Many people choose to wear clothes that are too small or
too tight. Please refrain from this 'money-saving' habit. Clothes that are too
tight are distracting, whether you appear uncomfortable, or look like you are
trying to remain younger than you are by squeezing into your
college-looking clothes at the age of 35. Be conscious of your appearance.
No
need for the 'Saturday Night Fever' look with a shirt open down to the
belly button. Likewise, the shirt shouldn't be buttoned up all the way to the
top button. Check yourself and the fit of your clothes in the mirror.
If the
clothes look too worn out, throw them out. There is a time to part with
everything in life.
Many men have the habit of wearing a wallet in the
front pocket. For the sake of looking bulky, try wearing it in a back pocket and
see if you can get used to it. Stuffing a huge handkerchief in the front pocket
produces bulk, too.
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Putting it all together ...
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Whatever you choose to wear, whatever dress style you
feel best in, stay consistent from the top of your head to the shoes on your
feet. A baseball cap with a suit jacket, mixed with pleated dress
pants and tennis shoes is not a complete put-together look. Stay consistent.
Stay with the same dress theme in your entire outfit. You will feel much more
'together' and project much more confidence in yourself.
To learn more about body
language and self-esteem, in a business setting or at a social event, browse
through other portions of this web site. We care about you
and your image.
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For a personal consultation, contact us at:
StudioKSalon@nc.rr.com |
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